HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED?
IS THIS REALLY ALL THERE IS?

Hi, I’m Stacey Sarenity Desire Map Facilitator
and certified Life Coach for women in transition
who want to live their most authentic,
aligned and rebellious lives.

I help you figure out how you really want to feel, set goals with soul + kick fear’s ass all the way to the finish line.

Because as it turns out, doing your OWN thing (especially after years of doing
someone else’s thing) is actually the most REBELLIOUS thing of all.


HERE'S WHAT IT MEANS TO BE A WOMAN-IN-TRANSITION: 

• Maybe the kids are moving on (and out), and you've got that empty nest feeling?
• Perhaps you've finally admitted your partner is not "the one."
• Or you've lost a parent, sibling or your wine-guzzling, gut-busting BFF.


And after years of thinking stuff like ...

• Gotta do the laundry. • Gotta put the dishes away. • Gotta call my mom.
• Gotta make Johnny's sandwich (crusts cut off) so he does't throw another tantrum ...
You finally have the silence to hear another voice with a very different sentiment:

• Life is short and precious. • You can't waste another minute.
• You've gotta make a change.


You haven't lost it lady (unless there's more than one voice in your head, might wanna get that checked out ...)

That voice is simply the gut-wrenching, cuticle-gnawing, gross-and-gnarly truth. Want to feel, set goals with soul + kick fear's ass all the way to the finish line.


AND IT'S RIGHT, WOMAN

You can't waste another minute. Life IS too short (and it can change or end in a BLINK). And if you want something, you have to go out and get it.
Right. Now.

And if you’re down to do that? I’m down to show you the ropes.

HERE’S THE HONEST TRUTH: 

Life hasn't been all glitter and champagne
(I say it’s been more like sawdust and Bud Light.)

From addiction to murder, I have literally gone through EVERY single excuse someone could use as to why they CAN'T be an amazing, successful, thriving human.

But because I’ve learned how to do a
few KEY things, namely:

 • Figure out how the fuck I wanna feel (key word being: "I")
 • Set goals with soul (goals that actually matter!)
 • Kick fear's ass along the way.

Today I pay it forward by mentoring women around the
globe with my real, raw, candid story and experiences. 

It's such a turn on to see their light switch on. I've been single for awhile, I'll take my 'turn on"
however I can get it! ;) 

WANT ALL THE DEETS?

Long (excruciatingly painful) story short...

ROMANCE, ADDICTION + DENIAL:
Married and made babies with then-husband. Then-husband spiraled deep into addiction. Spent 15 years dealing with an addict in full-on addiction and self-destruction mode (and became one amazing codependent).

DIVORCE, MURDER AND DEPRESSION:
Divorced the dude (not easy). Found out the dude murdered his girlfriend (also, not easy). Had to decide whether the dude would live or die while on life support (obviously, the LEAST EASY EVER). Then, dude goes to prison, turning me into a full-time single parent with zero financial assistance and a bought of serious depression.


THE SILVER LINING (AND BEGINNING OF MY REBIRTH):
I told my kids I needed to 'check out' on reality for a bit, to just 'survive’ (that I would be there, of course, but I could only do the bare minimum). They understood, gave me that time and I learned an invaluable lesson: I fully grasped the 'power' of just sitting in a depression, and not trying to fight it, or ignore it. I finally realized depression was just an emotion like any other emotion, and I needed to allow myself to process it.

I realized all of that bullshit was meant for me at that time of my life, and I had to honor the experience, not avoid or run from it.


DIAGNOSIS, PILLS AND DEATH:
Okay, but I can’t forget to mention my daughter’s life-threatening diagnosis (Type I Diabetic at age 8) and my dad passing away suddenly in 2016. Both jarring to my soul.

MASSIVE SHIFTS:
2015 – I launched a private FB group where I could go and show up vulnerable, and raw, and completely honest, without judgment or opinions of my life.

On December 31, 2015 I watched the time and year change on my phone, and I said to myself... That's it! I'm done being in that dark place of depression. I’m ready to take action.

I wrote a post telling the group that I wanted to open it up to others who needed a place to show up broken and lost. I had zero intentions of it manifesting into what it did. By that Friday, I had 700+ new members. By the end of that first month, I had over 1200 members, and nearly 4,500 by April. And it never stopped growing!


THE FACEBOOK REVELATION:
Helping numerous women a day, through private messages, with their lives and inspiring them to take action. I realized that I could actually make a living mentoring women with my story and experiences.


TODAY
I’m the definition of a Rebel Woman living a Rebel Life. (Okay, so maybe I made the phrase up, too. But still.)

Why? Because I’m 100 percent focused on making sure my life is MY life. I’m also focused on being a badass Mom, raising amazing and kind children and putting myself first so I can create an epic childhood for them, one where I am present and not exhausted and overwhelmed at the end of the day. And because I thrive on being real and not sugar-coating reality or making excuses for myself or anyone else, ever again.

WHAT DO I WANT YOU TO TAKE AWAY
FROM ALL OF THIS?

It’s never too late to come alive.
It’s never too late to go after what you want.
It’s never too late to live a rebel life.
I’m living proof.


WHAT NOW?

MANIFEST ANYTHING YOU WANT, FAST! 
You’re only a stack of old magazines + a handful of rhinestones away from the life of your dreams.
Get the manifestation tool designed to shake your life up and rock your face off.

And finally, why not indulge yourself in a few random ass facts about me, because that’s how I roll...

IF I WERE A DRINK ...
I’d have to be a Bloody Mary. Because it comes with vegetables, so it pretends to be healthy. Add bacon, and it's the happiest cocktail at the bar

CONFESSION:
I'm planning a full sleeve tattoo, with literary characters from the books that define my childhood: BFG, Matilda, Giving Tree, Little Prince, Tuck Everlasting, Treasure Island

I'M A LICENSED ESTHETICIAN
And a certified Life Coach. And a Desire Map Facilitator. And I have multiple degrees in hospitality. I guess you could say I’m a bit of a Jill-of-several-trades.

I RUN THE BADDEST FACEBOOK GROUP (FOR REAL!)

My passion for writing authentically, transparently, and raw, afforded me the opportunity to build an amazing and engaged following, starting back in 2011. As my story evolved, and my confidence grew, I took that following to a social media platform and created a Facebook group that organically grew to over 8,000 women in the first year.

"Thanks Stacey. If it wasn’t for TOWANDA and you, I would still be hiding everything. It has been extremely freeing and liberating for me to be able to talk about it. I owe you a lot for that! You do not know exactly how much I needed this group and right at the time that I needed it! I really mean it when I say….I barely check my regular FB wall anymore. I pretty much check TOWANDA regularly and keep active there." -Briana

Wanna join us babe? We'd love to meet. Towanda is a loving and supportive space for birds in transition who are ready to live their most aligned and rebellious lives.

You can request to join the group below.

WANT INSPIRATION TO KICK FEAR'S ASS?

If you are a woman (#sorrynotsorry guys), and you are interested in joining the secret FB group, hit me up at [email protected] and I'll get you in during the next Open House!

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Stacey Sarenity is a sassy, spunky + seriously savvy certified life coach, Desire Map facilitator and single mama who helps women-in-transition live their most authentic, aligned and rebellious lives. (Which really means: She teaches them to focus on how they want to feel first & foremost, set goals with soul [which are the only kind that really matter] + kick fear’s ass the whole way through.)

A survivor of everything from divorce to death to codependency, today Stacey is a 100-percent independent woman who truly believes it’s never too late do your own thing–and that doing your own thing is actually the most rebellious thing you’ll ever do.

If you’re at a major crossroads in life and have found yourself thinking, “Is this really all there is?” book a 15 minute chat with Stacey and get some much needed clarity. 

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